Race equity and anti-racism: parents and carers

Guidance on talking about racism with children

Parents and carers play a vital role in helping their children and young people understand race, racism and its impact. Many people find these conversations difficult or are concerned about how to handle questions.

You can use any of the guides below to support you and your family.

HfL also suggest Pragyya Agarwal’s book ‘Wish We Knew What to Say: Talking with Children About Race’ as she includes questions, anecdotes and advice.

If you are looking for a book that you can share with KS1 and KS2 children, you might wish to read ‘Your Skin My Skin: Let's Talk about Race, Racism and Empowerment’ by Laura Henry-Allain.

Yoopies: Parent’s guide to Black Lives Matter guide

Sesame Street: Explanation of race (EY and KS1) (video)

BBC Bitesize (KS2): Not racist v anti-racist: what's the difference?

NSPCC: Support for parents on children, race, racism and racial bullying

Parents.com: An age by age guide: How to teach your kids to fight hate

EduBirdie: Talking with kids about racism - guide and recommendations (read/watch/listen)

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